The first relationship we our witnessed too is our parents, which can help or hurt. Personally for me it did both. Growing up my parents did not have a healthy loving relationship. I remember a lot of yelling and verbal abuse occurring on both ends and even things thrown. I would run to my brothers room and he did what any big brother would do and that was distract me laughter. I knew as a kid that what my parents had was not what I was gonna want for my relationship as an adult. The one positive thing I learned from my parents though is no matter how rough things get you just don't walk away from each other or give up. They have been married now for 37 years and love each more now than when I was a child.
I have been blessed in life to be witness to some amazing relationships as well that have really molded to me to know who the perfect man is to me. I was around one of those couples most of yesterday which got me thinking after she said something to him so this is my perfect male for me....
Family is important, loves this career/job, always setting new goals to conquer and challenges himself everyday, laid back, knows how to laugh at himself, supportive in all things I do, takes care of his body and encourages me to do the same, appreciates a career woman and isn't intimidated by me, wants children, makes me laugh, volunteers and wants to make a difference especially in kids lives, can cook and does so ever so often, looks at me and just knows I needs a hug, always kisses me goodnight, sleeps in with me, stays in bed all day with me ever so often , loves sports especially football, drives me crazy just by the tip of his finger tips, loves traveling, kinky in the bedroom, patient especially with, wants kids, creates a supportive home with me for our kids, feels blessed to wake up every morning to someone who sees the world similar as I do, understands a single flower speaks volumes over a dozen if its the right one, is always brutally honest with me, doesn't put up walls when exposing emotions and feelings, says what he is thinking, does anything and everything to be with me, is proud to call me his amd loves showing me off to bis friends The list goes on but
you get it....
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