Life will always be filled with questions... Ones that make you think, ones to challenge you, ones to make you laugh, and ones that drive you crazy or even pissy. Also, we live in a world that people forget to think before they ask certain questions without intent to harm.
Seriously, this week I was asked the same question by at least a handful of people and the one question that puts my insecurities in place. "Why aren't you married Kelly "? If I knew the answer to that question then maybe I would be married don't ya think? I want to be married once so if that means I am single until I am 35 then I am good with that.
Getting married/commitment means to me supporting my other half anything that makes him smile, never going to bed angry, play like kids, challenge each other daily, planned surprises, meeting each other needs in all realm of life, never giving up even if it means a few months of a rough patch , staying in bed all day, weekly date nights....my list goes on and I refuse to lower my standards, which people keep telling me I need to do. This is the one area of life that I am greedy.
***Hate That I Love You *** - Rhianna
You are not greedy and there is no way that you need to lower your standards. Do not marry someone until you find that type of person, because that is what is should be like. =)
ReplyDeleteAww thanks Colleen!
ReplyDeleteNo need to lower your standards my love. In fact, I think you need to increase your standards. Not "take what you can get". You are an awesome chica. If a man can't see that, then it is time to move on. I will all most be 35 when I get married. So age is not a big thing. I LOVE you sister!!!! No insecurities sister. You are AMAZING!!!
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